Browsing Archive: December, 2010

Angry and breaking things

Posted by Susaye Rattigan on Friday, December 24, 2010, In : Q & A 

Q: My 10-year-old son received a Game Boy for Christmas from his uncle. He played with it constantly. A couple of days later, he came to me sobbing and holding his Game Boy. The screen was broken and it was not working. He told me he was not doing as well as his cousins on the game and hit himself on the head with it. He was heartbroken and cried uncontrollably. It broke my heart to see him that way. He offered to use his own money to replace it, but it was not enough to buy a new one....


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My Daughter is Lying. Help!!

Posted by Susaye Rattigan on Friday, December 24, 2010, In : Q & A 

Q: I have caught my 7-year-old daughter in several lies lately. While playing outside, a planter got broken and she was the only one around. When I asked her if she broke the planter, she told me she had not. Five minutes before it was fine, and now it is broken. She is the only one around. Then a week later, she told me she had brushed her teeth and when I checked her toothbrush, it was dry so I knew she hadn't. I asked her again if she brushed her teeth and she said she had. I don't ...


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Is it a Learning Problem?

Posted by Susaye Rattigan on Friday, December 24, 2010, In : Q & A 
Q: My 11-year-old son is a little slow understanding things. When he reads, he doesn't seem to understand what he read. I am now concerned that he may have a learning disability. Where can I get more information or what should I do?


A: Learning disability is a specific diagnosis that requires specialized testing by a qualified psychologist or diagnostician. It is a good idea to start with his school personnel. Talk with his teacher and ask her for an opinion of his learning skills. I...


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Questions about Death

Posted by Susaye Rattigan on Friday, December 24, 2010, In : Q & A 

Q: My 9-year-old son has been asking me questions about death lately. We have not had any death in our family and his questioning about the topic worries me. He just says he has been thinking about it. Should I be concerned about this or should I just let this go?


A: Children will bring up this topic for a variety of reasons. Perhaps he has heard some of his friends talking about it, seen it on television, overheard adults talking about, etc. This is a really good sign that he is aski...


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Dealing with Stealing

Posted by Susaye Rattigan on Friday, December 24, 2010, In : Q & A 

Q: A few times in the past few months I have noticed money missing from my purse. I do not want to accuse my children but they are the only ones that have access to my purse. Is there a good way of handling this?


A: This is a problem that is best to address with all your children at once. If you are certain that no one else has access to your purse, have a meeting with your children. Explain that you noticed money missing from you purse and tell them you expect to find out who is doin...


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Does my Child Need Counseling?

Posted by Susaye Rattigan on Friday, December 24, 2010, In : Q & A 
Q: Several people have told me that my son needs psychological counseling. How do I know whether my child really does needs therapy?

A: Listen to what others are telling you about your son. Teachers, caregivers or other parents may be able to see something in your son's behavior compared with other children in the same age group. Children cannot always tell us in words what they need or even that something is wrong. They tell us in the way they behave, so we, as parents, teachers, or ...
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Anger in Parenting

Posted by Susaye Rattigan on Friday, December 24, 2010, In : Q & A 

Q: Last night I really lost it with my 10-year-old son and was quite mean. I have been feeling terrible all day and can't stop thinking about how I should know better. I'm supposed to be the adult and not let him get to me that way. What is wrong with me, and what should I do?


A: Give yourself a break. Nothing is wrong with you. You are human. Kids are experts at pushing their parent's buttons. The guilt you are feeling is an uncomfortable but a potentially beneficial feeling. There a...


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Attention problems in 3 year old

Posted by Susaye Rattigan on Friday, December 24, 2010, In : Q & A 

Attention problem

Q: I have a 3½-year-old son who is constantly on the go. We make him sleep in a crib at night to keep him from walking around. Even with that, we have found him in the kitchen in the middle of the night. Babysitters are good for one visit and never return. Daycare centers will no longer take him, even for an occasional half-day stay. He never plays with any one toy for longer than a few minutes. A couple of people have suggested he needs to be on a prescription such a...


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Additional Information and FAQs

Posted by Susaye Rattigan on Friday, December 24, 2010,

What is a psychologist? 
A psychologist studies how we think, feel, and behave from a scientific viewpoint and applies this knowledge to help people understand, explain, and change their behaviour.

Where do psychologists work?
Some psychologists work primarily as researchers and faculty at universities and at governmental, and non-governmental organizations. Others work primarily as practitioners in hospitals, schools, clinics, correctional facilities, employee assistanc...


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